“WHOM SHOULD WE MAKE OUR FACEBOOK FRIEND?”
DrLakshman Jha Parimal
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Everybody wants to make some Facebook Friends. The process of making friends is straightforward. We send the friends request and within no time they accept it. Once it is accepted, we become Facebook Friends. No doubt, we build the battalions of Facebook Friends. It is our misfortune that we could not know him thoroughly before association or understand them later. This unique trend has spread among us. We keep our profile locked up. Nobody opens the locked profile. So, the selection of Facebook Friends is based on seeing the individual’s faces, appearances, names, and titles. A few can be trusted, like-minded, and responsive Friends but we cannot expect everything in DGITAL FRIENDS like in PHYSICAL FRIENDS.
The “PHYSICAL FRIENDSHIP” stays long because we know everything about friends. It establishes on mutual understanding, cooperation, similar hobbies, group activities, social adjustment, secrecy, trust, and family attachment. But as far as the DIGITAL FRIENDSHIP is concerned, there would not be any interaction among them. We do not know them. We get maximum friends request across the country as well as from other countries. Generally, we observe three qualities among DIGITAL FRIENDS. First and foremost, he should be an excellent transformer, Second, he should have mutual understanding, and third, he should be active always.
When we do not get proper transparency, mutual understanding, and activeness in Facebook Friends, so the friendship will not last long. We keep locked the Facebook Account and send friend requests to the Facebook Friends. They must know about you before accepting your request. After becoming Facebook Friends, we must have mutual understanding, and last but not least we must be active in correspondence and converse. It is a very shocking trend spread on the Facebook Platform that people share their BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, HOUSE WARMING, BOOK LAUNCHING, AWARD CEREMONIES, etc with full joy. But when their friends write them messages, congratulations, commendations, etc on these occasions, they do not express their gratitude or reply properly which can not be ever expected.
No doubt, it is challenging for us to select the appropriate Facebook Friends. So “WHOM SHOULD WE MAKE OUR FACEBOOK FRIEND?” would circulate on the horizon of the Digital World.
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DrLakshman Jha Parimal
Sound Health Clinic
S.P. College Road
Dumka
Jharkhand
11.07.2024
