Dont tell them what they can and can’t do

Dont tell them what they can and can’t do
You signed up to be their partner, their friend, not their parent.
Communicate what you want,
what you don’t want, what you like, what you dislike, your boundaries, your standard, what you’ll tolerate and what you won’t. If they choose to behave in ways that don’t align, – then so be it.”
Find someone who values respect, Integrity, communication and effort just as much as you do.

“You don’t control people, you set boundaries.

If they cross them, get out of that relationship -It’s really as simple as that.