If they keep saying things they don’t mean, stop giving them
If they keep saying things they don’t mean, stop giving them the benefit of the doubt.
It’s not just a bad habit- it’s a pattern of untrustworthiness.
Whether it stems from manipulation or emotional immaturity, the result is the same: it chips away at trust, little by little.
Words mean nothing without consistent follow-through.
Intentions without action are just noise.
If their actions don’t align with what they say, that’s not integrity- that’s lip service. And trust built on lip service is already halfway broken.